FAQs & Etiquette

FAQs

When are you available?

Please find my availability here. I announce tours a few weeks in advance in my newsletter.

Last minute bookings are rarely possible; however, on the occasion that I'm able to accommodate, an additional rush fee will apply.

What services do you offer?

I like to let the chemistry unfold naturally and see where it takes us. If you have any particular desires, please don't hesitate to mention them. You may also arrange a paid consultation if you would like to discuss things in more detail - this is especially recommended for kinkier sessions.

What are incalls, outcalls, TMTYs, and FMTYs?

Incall: You come to me and I arrange the venue. Generally, I'm only able to host incalls when I'm on tour. I may host in a hotel or a private apartment.

Outcall: I come to you and you arrange the venue. I can meet you at your hotel or private residence for your convenience. I'm available for outcalls both when I'm touring and when I'm not.

Train Me To You (TMTY): A type of outcall where I travel to you via train, typically over a longer distance. I'm available for TMTYs UK-wide, whenever I'm not on tour. TMTYs are longer dates, usually a minimum of 4hrs. My travel time and expenses are covered by the client.

Fly Me To You (FMTY): The same as a TMTY, except I travel by plane. This is the best option if the train journey exceeds 4.5hrs. I'm available for FMTYs internationally with clients that I have already met and have established trust with. If we are unable to meet in person, we can arrange a paid 1hr video call first to assess our compatibility.

What kind of food do you like?

Now, that's a big question!

Breakfast: You can never go wrong with eggs.

Lunch: I love a delicious sandwich or a salad. Pho or ramen in the colder months.

Dinner: Chinese, Indian, Thai, and Vietnamese are just a few of my favourite cuisines.

Dessert: I'm showing my British side here- my favourite desserts are trifle, sticky toffee pudding, and apple crumble.

I am sober and vegetarian. I enjoy eating a vegan diet.

Etiquette

Communication

I aim to respond to all suitable enquiries within 2 days. Please be patient and avoid double emailing. If you're still waiting for a reply from me, do remember to check your spam folder.

Bookings should be arranged in no more than three emails either side. I charge £50 per additional email or message if the communication is unnecessarily prolonged or verbose.

Screening

Screening is mandatory for all new clients. I use Protonmail - an end-to-end encrypted email provider - to receive contact forms and arrange dates. Any personal information is deleted after our first meet.

Deposits

A non-refundable deposit is required to secure our time together. This is typically 25-30% for shorter dates and 40-50% for longer dates.

Cancellation Policy

Cancellations made with 72 hours notice or less will be subject to a cancellation fee.

Failure to pay the cancellation fee may sadly result in us being unable to meet in future.

Safety, Hygiene, & Grooming

I do not allow unprotected penetrative sex or any unprotected genital-to-genital contact.

I am always freshly showered, well-dressed, and minty fresh for every meet. Please show me the same courtesy.

For maximum comfort, I prefer well-groomed facial hair and pubic hair. Please ensure your fingernails and toenails are clean and trimmed.

Outcalls

If you are hosting, I appreciate the following:

Fresh air/good ventilation
A clean bathroom and bedroom
Filtered drinking water or still water

For dates of 3 hours or more, please ensure refreshments and food are provided. What can I say? My appetite is insatiable.